I have one sister.
As typical young children, we fought a lot.
Kids cannot control their emotions, and the slightest thing can cause a quarrel between siblings.
The reasons for sibling quarrels are mostly trivial, but happen all the time.
I remember getting angry when we fought, but I don’t remember the reason for it.
‘I’ll never forgive her!’
‘I will never speak to my sister again!’
I remember swearing that firmly in my mind.
However, there is another feeling I remember.
After I made a firm vow to never speak to my sister again, she would treat me kindly in a usual manner.
There were no angry vibes from her at all, and she spoke to me in a very familiar way.
Then what do you think?
My heart was filled with anger, and I had made up my mind to never speak to her again, but then I felt my angry thoughts melting away in my mind, and they completely disappeared…
And in the next moment, I would be talking to my sister, and we would be good friends again.
This was the moment I was affected by my sister’s gentle vibrations.
My furious anger was soothed by my sister’s gentle vibes.
And here’s another deeper aspect we need to understand.
Gentle vibes.
The wave of anger.
These are undoubtedly the vibrations that emanate from the mind of people.
However, there is another world behind it that significantly affects our hearts.
It is called Sonen.
Sonen (innermost mind) is the spiritual aspect of the mind, and people’s minds are affected by this fundamental Sonen.
And when people have harmony with each other, it’s not a superficial peace; it’s important to have harmony in this world of thought.
Of course, my sister and I used to fight with each other sometimes, but we always made peace with each other in the world of our Sonen.
That’s why even if we fought and got angry for a while, it was only a matter of time before we returned to our normal state.
If two people are in harmony in the Sonen, there is nothing wrong with having a tit-for-tat quarrel.
Thus, Sonen fundamentally controls your choices and actions.
That’s why
Practicing Divine Light
Improve your Sonen
Both of these are important.
So what do you need to do to improve your Sonen?
Next week, we’ll look at some tips for improving our Sonen.
Enjoy life more, and stay tuned.